Lying, including lying by omission (withholding information), can severely damage trust and intimacy in relationships, leading to communication breakdowns and feelings of isolation.
While simply forgetting to mention something might not be a lie, intentionally withholding information with the purpose of deceiving someone is considered lying by omission and harmful.
Here’s a breakdown of why lying and withholding information are detrimental:
Erosion of Trust: Lying, even by omission, violates the fundamental expectation of honesty and transparency in a relationship, which is crucial for building and maintaining trust.
Damaged Intimacy: When someone withholds information, it can create a distance and prevent partners from feeling truly connected and vulnerable with each other.
Communication Breakdown: Withholding information limits open and honest communication, leading to misunderstandings, misinterpretations, and difficulty resolving issues.
Feelings of Isolation: The partner who is being lied to or has information withheld may feel isolated, as if they are being kept at arm’s length or not valued.
Long-Term Damage: Repeated lying or withholding information can lead to a gradual erosion of the relationship, making it difficult to repair and potentially leading to its demise.
If lying or withholding information has occurred, rebuilding trust requires open and honest communication, acknowledging the harm caused, and demonstrating genuine commitment to change.
If you are struggling with communication in your relationships, contact The Holistic Counseling Center of Long Island to make an appointment today.
The Holistic Counseling Center of Long Island
565 Rt 25A, Suite LR4, Miller Place, New York 11764
(631) 248-1727
Please note that we do not accept insurance. However, we can provide you with statements for OON benefits.
