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An emotional affair is a non-physical connection between two individuals that can lead to strong emotional intimacy, often at the expense of existing relationships. It’s characterized by: Signs that you or your partner is involved in an emotional affair: Consequences: If you are involved in an emotional affair or suspect your partner is, feel free to reach out to us about making an appointment. Individual therapy … Read More

I think we have really good senses of humor and I also think that we show up as humans in our space and we do use a lot of humor because so many couples come in with so much pain and aren’t laughing, and that is also missing in the relationship. I also find that use of self, that idea that this is an example of … Read More

How long does relationship therapy take? It depends on how quick you want things to change. How much effort do you want to put in? Are you making it a priority to go to therapy with your partner? What are your priorities? Some couples come into a therapy session with a defeatist attitude and throw up their hands and say, “we’re never going to get this.” … Read More

We’re extremely excited because we are finally going to do a Long Island GETTING THE LOVE YOU WANT couples therapy workshop! Valentine’s Weekend 2025 Trio at Holbrook Country Club700 Patchogue-Holbrook RoadHolbrook, New York 11741 It’s a fantastic facility where we’ll have rooms for smaller workshops & working on dialogue. Plus, it will be all-inclusive with meals for the time you’re there with us. We are very … Read More

Imago Relationship Therapists, David Weber and Robin Newman, talk about ideas & things that show up in their day-to-day practice in Long Island, and how they impact couples & individuals. Topics mentioned: PART 1: PART 2: Working with a counselor who’s a professional in relationship therapy can help you strengthen your connection and find solutions to conflicts. We offer a safe place where couples learn to … Read More

What is Imago Relationship Therapy? The Latin word “imago” means “image” which refers to the “unconscious image of familiar love.” Meaning, there’s frequently a connection between frustrations in our adult relationships and our early childhood experiences. For example, an individual who was frequently criticized as a child will likely be highly sensitive to their romantic partner’s criticism. Or, they may be unconsciously attracted towards a partner … Read More

Emotional invalidation is the act of dismissing / rejecting someone’s thoughts, feelings, or behaviors. It says to someone, “Your feelings don’t matter, or your feelings are wrong.” Emotional invalidation can take many forms, but the end result is usually the same. It makes someone feel unimportant / irrational for having feelings. If your partner doesn’t allow you to express emotions freely, or criticizes you for what … Read More

There’s many factors that can affect a romantic relationship negatively that stem from online behavior or our phones; from text distractions, to jealous online interactions, or even searching for infidelity – is your phone / social media / technology affecting your relationship? Many people encounter some type of tech-related struggle with their significant other. Among partnered adults in the U.S. – that is, those who are … Read More

Falling in love is fun (and intense)! From butterflies in the stomach, to feelings of euphoria, to not being able to think of anyone or anything else, here’s what happens to your brain when you find that special spark with someone. This is your brain on LOVE! The feeling that we know of as ‘love’ is actually an irresistible cocktail of hormones and chemicals. So what … Read More