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What is Scapegoating? Counseling For Individuals in Long Island

September 7, 2022 by Holistic Counseling Center

Unfair, unjust, and brutal… Scapegoating is a dangerous and often overlooked behavior in the realm of abuse. It ruins self-esteem, increases anger / depression, and crushes trust. So let’s explore what scapegoating is… Scapegoating is a behavior of singling out a person/child/employee/member of a group of peers with the intention of giving them unmerited negative treatment or blame. Scapegoat theory refers to the tendency to blame … Read More

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The Toxic, Negative Destruction Taken on Children of Narcissists

Dr. Linda Martinez-Lewi has a great podcast about Narcissistic Personality Disorder and how to heal from dealing or living with a narcissist. In one episode titled, “Childhood Origins of Those Who Live in the Shadows of the High Level Narcissist,” she talks about the negative destruction taken on children of narcissists: Children of narcissists become experts at catering to the idiosyncratic needs of the narcissistic parent/s. … Read More

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