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Emotional Invalidation: When your partner dismisses your emotions.

August 19, 2023 by Holistic Counseling Center

Emotional invalidation is the act of dismissing / rejecting someone’s thoughts, feelings, or behaviors. It says to someone, “Your feelings don’t matter, or your feelings are wrong.” Emotional invalidation can take many forms, but the end result is usually the same. It makes someone feel unimportant / irrational for having feelings. If your partner doesn’t allow you to express emotions freely, or criticizes you for what … Read More

Couples Counseling

Reduce Fighting With Couples Therapy

Reduce fighting with couples therapy in Miller Place, Long Island. Therapy can help you avoid future relationship problems. You can learn to communicate frustrations/desires in an effective way. You’ll also learn about your partner’s triggers and history, begin to see each other in a new light, and truly understand what each other needs for intimacy and love. Couples therapy is a great tool for couples who … Read More

Family Counseling

Using Imago Relationship Therapy for Family Conflict

Imago Relationship Therapy is designed to help conflict in relationships become opportunities for healing and growth. Imago therapy isn’t limited to romantic relationships – it can be used for family conflict, in professional settings, as well as with friends. What is Imago relationship therapy? Imago is all about deepening relationships and turning conflict into an opportunity for compassion and growth. There’s an outline of communicating in … Read More

Imago relationship therapy Suffolk County

Couples Counseling | Family Counseling | Individual Counseling

Powerful Results with Imago Relationship Therapy in Suffolk County

The Holistic Counseling Center of Long Island offers Imago Relationship Therapy in Suffolk County Imago therapy is a type of relationship counseling that can be helpful for couples (as well as families & individuals) who are experiencing conflict, or who simply want to cultivate better communication and intimacy in their lives. Imago, the Latin word for “image”, is at the core of the therapy, which seeks … Read More

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“I began to work with Dave about a month ago to help me begin to work through the grief that I’ve carried for 20 years over the loss of my sister, as well as the recent loss of both my Dad and my Mom in the space of a year. Although, I’ve only just begun this journey, I’m already feeling so listened to and understood. Dave’s kind, gentle manner has made it easy for me to feel comfortable enough to begin to explore how best to deal with my grief.”